The Basic idea of falling in love for most standard students who are so called nerds would seem preposterous! In the end, most do fall for it and end up having big crushes. Of course, I refer to those rejections as crushes. Most people just make a Wrong move at a Wrong time. In cases of such delicate nature, patience is a good tool.
So there are 3 basic rules to follow;
The 1st Basic rule: Attraction! Being attractive is not a sin, and being attracted is no crime either. But, being attracted to just a face would actually spell disaster if one cannot look behind a face. Every face has feelings, understanding those feelings is a feat indeed! So all you Wannabe Lovers out there, look for something in the person other than looks!
The 2nd Basic Rule: Initiation of Contact. This actually is a tough phase, Approaching the person you like and talking about your feelings straight on their face won't actually work in real unlike shown in those romantic movies! So think smart and make friends first, understand the person and then express the feelings at the right time in the right place!The 3rd Basic Rule: Expression.
I know the 3 words, I LOVE YOU! Easy to read, write and hear. But real hard to Say if meant for real! So start of with something that would actually be related to love and actually a common platform for speech for both of you. Example; Start with something about marriage, come to love and arranged marriage. Observe the reactions and then make a move!
I would be happy if the person you love also loves you! But before making a move, think ahead! Being worthy of the person you love is important! How good are you for Her/Him? Can You Understand Him/Her? Can you Keep Her/Him Happy? These Questions are worth a lot for a successful relation! Hesitation and no commitment leads to Chaos and Rejection! True Love is tough. So, Sacrifices are an essential part of it.
The person you love is Important, An essential part of your life! So its not just 'me' you have to think about, Its Him/Her too! So you have to keep Her/Him 's Happiness Before Yours! If the person you love is happy with someone else, His/Her Happiness is what you seek. So don't ruin His/Her Life by acting like a spoilt brat!
That is not what i consider true love at all! And Last But Not the Least, Truthfulness is essential. Its Keeps the Relation transparent and clear! and Don't get intimidated by those romantic movies, its just an impossible dream made into reality through the efforts of film industries to earn money! So be smart and be true, You have someone really good for you waiting somewhere!
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