"The history of world is the history of a few men who had faith in themselves......."

Very often we find people blaming(there are very few exceptions) one or the other (country , organization , System , People) for deficiency to provide opportunities for their growth or gnarling how bad the things are going on in the system when compared with the global scenario.One thing must be kept in mind that is we should not forget our history. Whatever the things happening today are the outcomes of the undertakings by people based on their visions or thoughts about the future.The fate of the system to flourish or degrade depends upon how the next generations carry their visions,actions and improvise them. So whatever leaders do today will manifest in the future .Thats the importance of History.we study history because it is the reason for what is happening at present.If we want a very bright and magnificent future we should learn from past and implement now for future.So what I would like to emphasize is ,its good to expect the system to work at the best and deliver , but its best to act to make the system deliver the best.Every single step or action we take now can make the future how we wanted to be.We should try to correct the shortcomings in the system because of the lack of vision of our precedents rather than just hoping for the best.That makes one leader.Leader is one who has the right vision for future and act now.Instead of blaming for lack of opportunities it better to look and create opportunities . If the person has proper vision and confidence in himself he can pursue the path which might be different from what others are doing , some people may object including friends and family,yet to pursue the path he should have confidence in himself.Such people alone can create history and remain in the golden pages of history.Take any historical person; they become great because they have done things which are different and had confidence in themselves in achieving them.Whatever the change brought in society or system is by such people.At the same time we should be able to visualize in the right direction.Both Hitler and Gandhi are great leaders ,both are very influential, Hitler is a great orater and was able to lead lots of people and took bold steps but the vision he had is about the supremacy of Nazi race which is not very appreciable.On the other hand Gandhi's vision of Independence through Non-Violence and Peace is for the welfare of nation and millions of people of different races,religions,sects.What we need today in India are such leaders who have courage ,wisdom and confidence to attempt to bring positive change and contribute to development of nation and giving better nation to future.We should thrive to give legacies which the future generations feel proud of rather than wasting our energy in unproductive( every activity has some productivity but how much vast it is should be looked up) matters.Take responsibility of our future . Remember that we make our future and we do have choices and have confidence and courage to go for our dreams and evolve as a higher person whom our nation should feel proud of.

Gods Gifts

As we walk our path of life,
We meet people everyday.
Most are simply met by chance.
But, some are sent our way.

These become special friends
Whose bond we can't explain;
The ones who understand us
And share our joy and pain.

Their love contains no boundaries.
So, even we are apart.
Their presence enhances usWith a warmth felt in the heart.
This love becomes a passageway,
When even the miles disappear.

And so, these friends,God sends our way,Remain forever near.

Please help me find this book!

Recently when I was travelling to my home town, I came accross this interesting lady who was fully merged in reading her Novel. She looked so charming in a well starched cotton saree and with a big bindi which highlighted her forehead she looked amazing and gave a impact of someone with high morale and good personality from within too.

For the person Iam i sat besides her and put on the music and was humming at the lowest tone I could, taking every care that she wouldnt get annoyed or disturbed by this young brat! When I was done with some music I grabbed a magazine and started to read telugu and it was broken and took hours to decipher the lingo.

Iam shameful to say that being a telugu girl Iam unable to read with the ease I do other languages coz I was brought up outside AP. Dads every effort of teaching me learn was in vein, but i can manage to read and I have been doing lot of reading in telugu so that I can master it soon as it seems to be very close to Kannnada and the Lipi is not much differed.

I guess this charming lady sensed my difficulty and asked me if I was trying to imitate her! I was taken back and said no aunty Iam trying to learn or read this column, she said the best way to learn things is when u learn it from your heart rather than by compulsion. Well this was a thing that dad always said. Iam brilliant in conveying telugu thru english. But cannot type in the same Lingo.

She offered me to meet her once at her home in Bangalore and she would give me some book to read and it would not make me a master in the language but it would sure grade me up from the kindergarten learner and she said its called Pedha bala shiksha! and when i asked dad about that he said it was the book which in olden days they used to learn anything and everything and it teaches you from the basics till the grade 10 requirements.

Thats amazing and I wonder if I could get one here at Bangalore and wanna see how it looks like and if any one knows where would we find this book or any publisher who sells this online do let me know coz my craving for this book has surpassed my patience level.

A guide to falling in love

The Basic idea of falling in love for most standard students who are so called nerds would seem preposterous! In the end, most do fall for it and end up having big crushes. Of course, I refer to those rejections as crushes. Most people just make a Wrong move at a Wrong time. In cases of such delicate nature, patience is a good tool.

So there are 3 basic rules to follow;

The 1st Basic rule: Attraction! Being attractive is not a sin, and being attracted is no crime either. But, being attracted to just a face would actually spell disaster if one cannot look behind a face. Every face has feelings, understanding those feelings is a feat indeed! So all you Wannabe Lovers out there, look for something in the person other than looks!

The 2nd Basic Rule: Initiation of Contact. This actually is a tough phase, Approaching the person you like and talking about your feelings straight on their face won't actually work in real unlike shown in those romantic movies! So think smart and make friends first, understand the person and then express the feelings at the right time in the right place!The 3rd Basic Rule: Expression.

I know the 3 words, I LOVE YOU! Easy to read, write and hear. But real hard to Say if meant for real! So start of with something that would actually be related to love and actually a common platform for speech for both of you. Example; Start with something about marriage, come to love and arranged marriage. Observe the reactions and then make a move!

I would be happy if the person you love also loves you! But before making a move, think ahead! Being worthy of the person you love is important! How good are you for Her/Him? Can You Understand Him/Her? Can you Keep Her/Him Happy? These Questions are worth a lot for a successful relation! Hesitation and no commitment leads to Chaos and Rejection! True Love is tough. So, Sacrifices are an essential part of it.

The person you love is Important, An essential part of your life! So its not just 'me' you have to think about, Its Him/Her too! So you have to keep Her/Him 's Happiness Before Yours! If the person you love is happy with someone else, His/Her Happiness is what you seek. So don't ruin His/Her Life by acting like a spoilt brat!

That is not what i consider true love at all! And Last But Not the Least, Truthfulness is essential. Its Keeps the Relation transparent and clear! and Don't get intimidated by those romantic movies, its just an impossible dream made into reality through the efforts of film industries to earn money! So be smart and be true, You have someone really good for you waiting somewhere!

For me Friendship is all about.......

You think about me, only when there is none to think about you...
I pray, let there be more friends in your life, than you ever wished for.
You want to hear me, only when there is no other voice to wake your ears...
I pray, let there be more genuine voices in your life, than you ever craved for.
You need me, only when your eyes are wet...

I pray, let there be no more tears in your eyes, for the rest of your life.
You feel like talking to me, only when your heart is burdened with grief...
I pray, let there remain nothing under the sun, capable of hurting you.
May all my prayers be answered, if they are from my heart...
Even though i know what i am gonna lose forever.

You will find lots of helping hands, when you don't really need them...
You are lucky if u can find one, when you are in need.
You will find hundreds of faces laughing with you ...
You are blessed if u can find one, crying with you.

I know you the way you painted it for me, and I have never seen such a beautiful portrait...
I read your thoughts from the beats of your heart,
I feel your pain, from the sighs of your soul,
But spare no words, to help me know you more.

Promises, I do not really believe in...
'Coz there are few who keep it for a lifetime.

Trust, I do not blindly invest in...
Coz it's the blind who falls even in the very visible pits.

They are just another two faces of hope,
That they never be broken...
And you are always at a risk,
Till the moment they are fulfilled.
I will be there for you when you need me...
To give you a hug, a shoulder to cry on.

I will still be there for you when you do not need me...
But even if you search, you will not find me.
Not in the wildest of your dreams buddy, can u imagine how much I care for you

I need you, not because I am the best...
I need you, not because you are the best...
I need you, because I like you the way you are!

Me - Morals which are enchanting

Well, this is my first blog and I used be a very frequent bloggers at different sites and suddenly lost touch and when i return to retrieve my account it said expired. In other words I would say that its my second innings in a blog world.

When asked to write few words about me the most common word that people would use to discribe me is a brat!!! Well, Iam a combi pack of mischief,idiot and humor. Iam very sensitive and would get carried away in the pool of emotions which people bring with them.

So wait to see few of my scriblings or otherwise called poems in English,Hindi and ofcourse telugu which is my mother tounge.